"We were minutes into lunch, saying our hellos, figuring out our favorite Mexican dish to order, and then she asked me.
“How is your soul?”
It was said in a way kind of like you would ask someone “how is your family?” or “how is your new job?” only there was so much more to it. It was a beeline to my heart. In a cut the crap, not interested in meaningless small talk, let’s choose to be real here and now kind of way. It was gorgeous. "
If ever there were a question to ask our friends, that's it. And if ever there were a question that, when asked, had the ability to make us feel bathed in love, that's it. It's just too good of a question not to share.